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# Jeff Veley - Bullying Prevention Speaker

Resilience Education for Bullying Prevention

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## Posts

- [The Bullycide Myth... Misleading Teens to Kill Themselves](https://www.jeffveley.com/2015/11/01/the-bullycide-myth-misleading-teens-to-kill-themselves/) - Examining the Potential Link Between Bullying and Suicide Bullying and suicide are two issues that have become all too common for teens living in today's culture. This year alone, 18 million young people will be bullied in America where suicide is the third leading cause of death among teens. With awareness rising, a new term
- [Helping Your Children Through Struggles](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/08/03/helping-your-children-through-struggles/) - KEY TAKEAWAY: Good parenting is coaching. Teach your child HOW to do it. Don't do it for them.
- [Empowering Your Child to Deal with Haters](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/08/21/empowering-your-child-to-deal-with-haters/) - Empowering Your Child to Deal with Hatersby Jeff Veley | Love Changes It Allhttps://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/Web-Afraid-My-Child-Will-Get-Picked-On.mp3 You can prevent your child from getting picked on. Sadly, social aggression is a part of life. You can teach them HOW to respond to mean behavior and handle haters. When you equip your child with social and emotional coping skills
- [Roasting, a New Trend in Cyberbullying](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/10/25/roasting-a-new-trend-in-cyberbullying/) - While on tour this fall one of the most common questions I get from middle schoolers after giving an assembly is... "Mr. Jeff, can I roast you?" While roasting isn't new, it's making a comeback and, instead of being a fun form of comedy, students are sometimes using #RoastMe to cyberbully peers online. While this
- [Emotional Balloons](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/11/03/emotional-balloons/) - Emptying Your Emotional Balloonby Jeff Veley | Love Changes It Allhttps://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/Web-Emotional-Balloon.mp3
- [Find Your Reason to Live](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/12/02/find-your-reason-to-live-social-aggression/) - Listen on iTunes I had the pleasure of sitting down with one of my dearest friends, Yohan Daza, recently to join his new podcast. "Find Your Reason to Live" takes a positive approach to the suicide problem and inspires those searching for hope by sharing stories of others that have overcome. At the same time
- [Leaving a Legacy](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/01/18/leaving-a-legacy/) - A Golden Rule Legacyby Jeff Veley | Love Changes It Allhttps://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/Web-LEAVING-A-GOLDEN-RULE-LEGACY.mp3 Yesterday I attended a funeral for a retired police officer and military veteran who passed away suddenly. Standing in Texas cemetary with the cold wind blowing across my face, time seemed to slow down as I listened to the words of the chaplain who
- [Helping Kids Learn Coping Skills](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/04/04/helping-kids-learn-coping-skills/) - Helping Kids Learn Coping Skillsby Jeff Veley & Chris Scheufele | Chris in the Classroom Podcasthttps://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/Coping-Skills-Final.mp3 It's true that coping skills are becoming a popular topic of conversation, as we seek to reduce stress and find our happy places, once again. In an era where adult coloring has become a fad and millenials are opening
- [Cultivating Your Child's Passion](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/05/04/cultivating-your-childs-passion/) - Cultivating Your Child's Passionsby Jeff Veley | Love Changes It Allhttps://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/Web-Cultivating-Your-Childs-Passions.mp3 Every kid has dreams, talents, and passions. One of the greatest opportunities as a parent is the ability to cheer your child on and help the grow to accomplish their goals. Listening to "The Warning" from Monterrey, Mexico makes me wonder what involvement their
- [Secrets to a Rocking Professional Development Training](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/07/12/secrets-to-a-rocking-professional-development-training/) - How to create empowering learning experiences As kids will soon be heading back to school, administrators are busy planning for the upcoming year and that means putting together staff in-service trainings. Over the last eight years, I have trained thousands of educators and mental health professionals how to stop social aggression/bullying and promote peace on
- [Host a Speaker or School Assembly for Red Ribbon Week](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/10/04/red-ribbon-week-speaker-school-assembly/) - Students say "no" to drugs, alcohol, and violence Red Ribbon Week takes place each October, with schools across America participating. Donning a red ribbon, many students will pledge to live drug free, as part of on-campus activities. Sponsored by the National Family Partnership, Red Ribbon Week is a popular time for schools to address substance
- [I Hope That My Brother Bullies Me](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/02/12/i-hope-that-my-brother-bullies-me/) - A Student's Positive Perspective on Bullying "I hope that my brother is mean to me". A seventh grade boy (whom I'll call Dylan) shared this with me following a recent school assembly. As a youth motivational speaker, my goal was to give students a different outlook on bullying. Still, his words surprised me. Why would
- [Columbine and the Anti-Bullying Movement: 20 Years Later](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/04/20/columbine-anti-bullying-20-year-anniversary/) - Reflecting on the Columbine Massacre Today, America reflects on the events of April 20th, 1999 at Columbine High School in Littleton, Colorado. It was a tragic day that changed how we view school safety and made us hug our kids a bit tighter, each day. After the Columbine Massacre, America asked what could cause two
- [Michigan Schools Accused of Violating Anti-Bullying Laws](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/05/23/michigan-schools-accused-of-violating-anti-bullying-laws/) - Educators Blamed for Underreporting A recent article from The Lansing State Journal caught my attention. As a Michigan native, I've spent countless hours in Michigan schools over the last 10 years, addressing the issue of bullying. In addition to being a youth motivational speaker and consultant, I've also spent several years working in classrooms and
- [Announcing SQUABBLES® Games for Social and Emotional Learning](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/08/25/12322/) - Squabbles™ Launch Party It was a joy to announce the launch of Squabbles™ with my dear friends. Over one year in the making, Squabbles™ is the improvisational role-play game that teaches students how to manage emotions, solve social problems, and stop bullying behavior! >> Click here to sign up for an alert when Squabbles™ is available
- [SQUABBLES® Social & Emotional Learning for School & Home Educators](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/11/25/squabbles-conflict-resolution-system-curriculum-now-available/) - My co-authors and I are thrilled to announced that SQUABBLES® is now available for schools, families, and private practitioners. We've worked hard to game-i-fy bullying prevention, social and emotional learning, and conflict resolution. Through our curriculum and training programs, both students and grownups will be empowered with a playful approach to a painful problem. Learn
- [How to Stop Mean Bothering Behavior](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/03/05/how-to-stop-mean-bothering-behavior/) - Simple Solutions to Stop Aggression The most recognizable form of social aggression (or bullying) is bothering behavior. If you search "bullying" on Google images, you'll find clip art of large angry-looking kids holding scrawny kids in the air by their shirt. While this is the stereotype, we must recognize that bothering behavior takes many forms.
- [Recommended Resources for Distance Learning](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/03/24/recommended-resources-for-distance-learning/) - Lessons & Activities for Teachers and Home Educators The Coronavirus (COVID-19) has caused both professional educators and parents to scramble. America has completely restructured what learning looks like - overnight. Despite the pandemic and pandemonium surrounding this time, it has been so encouraging to see people sharing resources. Below is a list of resources from
- [Crisis Hotlines Report 1000% Increase in Calls During COVID](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/04/04/crisis-hotlines-report-1000-increase-in-calls-during-covid/) - As Americans struggle to cope during quarantine, crisis hotlines are reporting a 1000% increase in calls for help. The Crisis Text Line, has grown in popularity, especially among teens. It's website currently has a pop-up message that says "Social Distancing may be lonely, but you're not alone". That's a message that it seems we all
- [School District Livestreams Social & Emotional Learning Lessons](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/05/18/district-livestreams-sel-lessons/) - As a youth motivational speaker, reaching students and grownups during the Coronavirus has been a challenge. While I'd normally be traveling the country with my bullying prevention tour, the quarantine has forced me to get creative in how I reach schools. Thankfully, through technology, I've been able to livestream social and emotional learning lessons for
- [What do you do when your Boss is the Bully?](https://www.jeffveley.com/2021/10/23/when-your-boss-is-the-bully/) - How to Handle Aggression from Authority The core definition that constitutes "bullying" is an imbalance of power. The challenge when we experience aggression from authority is that a power imbalance is a structure in which professional relationship exists, especially in the case of a manager and an employee. No matter what you do or say,
- [Saying "Bullying" is Like Pulling a Fire Alarm](https://www.jeffveley.com/2022/09/07/fire-alarm-bullying/) - The Unintended Consequences of "Bullying" If you ever had someone pull the fire alarm, you know the panic that erupts. I remember that some kids at my high school thought it would be funny to pull the fire alarm as a prank. The staff was not amused. While the students thought that it would only
- [A Comparative Analysis: Anti-Bullying vs. Bullying Prevention Techniques](https://www.jeffveley.com/2023/05/18/anti-bullying-vs-bullying-prevention/) - Bullying remains a significant concern within educational settings, affecting students' well-being and academic performance. As school administrators, it is imperative to implement effective strategies to address this issue. Two prominent approaches that often come up in discussions are "anti-bullying" and "bullying prevention" techniques. In this article, we will compare and contrast these two methodologies to
- [Nurturing Social Harmony: The Benefits of Restorative Practices in Education for Addressing Social Aggression](https://www.jeffveley.com/2023/06/19/restorative-practices-education/) - In today's interconnected world, fostering positive social relationships and addressing social aggression have become critical concerns in educational settings. The traditional punitive approaches to discipline often fail to address the root causes of aggressive behavior and can even exacerbate the problem. However, a paradigm shift towards restorative practices in education has shown promising results in
- [Helping Students Become Their Own Hero](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/12/09/helping-students-become-their-own-hero/) - How Grownups can Empower Kids to Solve Social Problems Recently on my podcast I shared a common problem that I see with adults, when intervening in conflicts. It's a mindset that, at first glance, seems like the right thing to do. Upon further examination, we see that it actually hurts our children's ability to be
- [A Real-Life Resilience Story](https://www.jeffveley.com/2026/04/09/jaydan-martinez/) - From foster care to Congress—one young man’s decision to rise above and advocate for others Over the past two years, a young man named Jaydan has become part of my family—though not in the way I once expected. Since the age of six, Jaydan has been part of the foster care system. Like many, his
- [Dealing with Bullying Based on Race, Religion and Sexual Orientation](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/03/03/dealing-with-bullying-based-on-race-religion-and-sexual-orientation/) - How to Deal with Prejudicial Bullying by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/Web-How-to-Respond-to-Predjudice.mp3 It's the kind of mistreatment that often cuts you to the core... being picked on for who you are and what you believe can be an incredibly painful experience. Not only do you feel singled out and made fun of
- [Why Anti-Bullying Programs Are Ineffective](https://www.jeffveley.com/2023/01/11/ineffective-anti-bullying/) - Bullying is a pervasive problem in many schools and communities around the world. The harmful effects of bullying can last a lifetime, leading to mental health issues such as anxiety and depression, and even suicide. For this reason, many schools have implemented anti-bullying programs in an effort to combat this problem. However, recent research has
- [How to Foster a Peaceful School Environment](https://www.jeffveley.com/2023/07/26/peaceful-school-environment/) - The Power of Multi-Year Social Aggression and Conflict Resolution Initiatives Educators and administrators have the shared responsibility of creating a school environment that fosters not only academic growth but also emotional and social well-being. Social aggression (often referred to as "bullying) is a prevalent issue in many K-12 schools. It can have a lasting impact
- [The Benefits of Social & Emotional Learning](https://www.jeffveley.com/2023/04/30/the-benefits-of-social-emotional-learning/) - Social and emotional learning (SEL) is the process of acquiring skills and knowledge to manage emotions, establish positive relationships, and make responsible decisions. SEL is essential for students' success in school and life, and research has demonstrated numerous benefits to this approach to learning. First and foremost, SEL helps students develop emotional intelligence. Emotional intelligence
- [Resilience Education for Preventing Bullying: Empowering Children to Thrive](https://www.jeffveley.com/2023/03/16/resilience-education-preventing-bullying/) - Bullying is a pervasive problem in schools and communities worldwide. It can take many forms, from physical aggression to verbal abuse, and can cause long-lasting harm to the victims. Resilience education is a promising approach to preventing bullying and promoting well-being among children and adolescents. Resilience is the ability to adapt and cope with adversity,
- [Helping Improve District Policies on Aggression](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/12/07/improving-policies-on-aggression/) - As my team and I help schools across the country learn the best practices to respond to aggressive behaviors on campus, we've noticed a specific need arise. After training the students, staff, and parents on the "Peace Sign Approach" to social aggression, schools are quick to implement the strategies I teach. Still, they express that,
- [Can Bystanders Stop Bullying?](https://www.jeffveley.com/2021/11/04/can-bystanders-stop-bullying/) - How to Intervene When Others are Mean The role of the witness or bystander to aggression, is one that's often called into question. Research shows that those who intervene can often stop mean behavior in the moment. If this is true, what lengths should children go to stop mean behavior and what is the cost?
- [New Social and Emotional Learning Programs for Schools](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/05/22/social-and-emotional-learning-programs-for-schools/) - Schools are looking for bullying prevention programs that work. Additionally, they want something that will last and help their students grow both socially and emotionally . Jeff Veley is a youth motivational speaker who specializes in resilience education for bullying prevention. He also serves as a consultant, which helps schools make social and emotional learning fun.
- [Broken Wings, ArtPrize Piece Sheds Light on Bullying, School Shootings](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/09/20/broken-wings-artprize-bullying/) - For ten years, artist Pamela Alderman has entered ArtPrize, the largest international art competition, based in Grand Rapids, MI. This year, Alderman is using butterflies to foster healing discussions around the topics of bullying and school shootings in her piece "Broken Wings". Known for her interactive art pieces, Alderman and her team of volunteers offer
- [The Long-Term Effects of Quarantine on Mental Health](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/05/20/quarantine-mental-health/) - Doctor Predicts that Mental Health Pandemic is Likely It is no surprise that mental health challenges are increasing during the COVID-19 pandemic. As people abandon their everyday routines during quarantine, many wonder when restrictions will lift and if life will ever return to normal. As an advocate for mental health, I often wonder if health
- [Is Anti-Racist the Answer?](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/08/13/is-anti-racism-the-answer/) - Why the Anti-Racist Movement May Increase Hate & Violence The desire to stand against racism is one that's being felt, across America and around the world. As we reflect on the tragic murder of George Floyd and many others, movements for justice and equality are gaining traction and support. In addition to Black Lives Matter,
- [Overcoming the Back-to-School Blues](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/08/26/overcoming-the-back-to-school-blues/) - Tip for Preparing At-Home Learners For many students, heading back to school this year looks very different than in the past. As a parent, it can be hard to know how to get your student excited for at-home learning. Here are a few things you can do to help them look forward to learning this
- [Social & Emotional Learning without the Planning](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/09/01/plug-and-play-social-emotional-learning-curriculum/) - Plug and Play Lessons for On-Campus & At-Home Learning .When you consider all of the challenges this school year, teachers and counselors are in need of simple ways to engage students. During COVID-19 it's especially important that we teach social and emotional learning skills along with resilience education. Still, it can be difficult to find
- [School Culture and Commitment](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/10/22/school-culture-and-commitment/) - The Impact of Commitment and Consistency in Education Being Committed to the Right Thing Consistency is the key to behavioral change. Consistency with the right things will help you succeed. Consistency with the wrong thing - obviously is bad. Many schools fall victim to the "Shiny Star Syndrome". This means that you're constantly adding new
- [Black Friday Deals Now Live!](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/11/24/black-friday-deals-now-live/) - Up to 50% off Educational Products I'm excited to announce my BLACK FRIDAY deals, with some special offers for schools. You can save up to 50% when purchasing one of my on-demand assemblies. Yep, you can host one of my award-winning school assemblies with no travel costs. Additionally, you'll have lifetime access. Follow-up materials are available,
- [National School Tour Helps Schools Address Mental Health Concerns](https://www.jeffveley.com/2021/07/19/school-assembly-tour-fall-2021/) - Youth Motivational Speaker Makes it Fun to Build Emotional Resilience Music, magic, and gut-busting comedy grabs the attention of students attending a school assembly by youth motivational speaker Jeff Veley. For over a decade, Jeff has mixed entertainment with education and a powerful message on taking control of your mental health. Still, Jeff is not
- [School Turns to Social and Emotional Learning to Stop Aggression](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/02/21/sel-bullying-prevention/) - Empowering Students to Resolve Conflicts Working with schools that invest in social and emotional learning is so inspiring. It’s a completely different approach than the traditional anti-bullying message. Instead of just telling student to REPORT social problems, it teaches them how to SOLVE problems while protecting their emotions. It’s refreshing and empowering. The media will
- [Why Zero-Tolerance Policies Make Bullying Worse](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/03/10/why-zero-tolerance-policies-make-bullying-worse/) - As I hear from educators and parents about bullying, many of them tell me that schools need to do better by focusing their efforts on "common sense strategies" like Zero Tolerance Policies in their anti-bullying programs which encourage students to report all incidents. They seem certain that the only way that we can stop the
- [Why Bullying Awareness Isn't Enough:  Finding a Solution to the Bullying Problem](https://www.jeffveley.com/2021/04/20/bullying-awareness-isnt-enough/) - Bullying is nothing new. From the infamous Phoebe Prince case a decade ago to the recent news that mega-producer Scott Rudin is stepping back from Broadway due to allegations of workplace harassment, bullying extends from the schoolyard to the office. The question is, why does bullying continue to plague our society? For years, schools have
- [The Art of Parent Engagement](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/01/23/the-art-of-parent-engagement/) - Tips to Increasing Parent Interaction & Attendance One of the most common questions administrators ask is me how to boost attendance for parent events. As schools seek to provide resources and learning opportunities, it can be challenging and even disheartening if these opportunities aren't taken advantage of. As a youth speaker, I hold numerous parent
- [Educators, How Can We Best Care for You?](https://www.jeffveley.com/2021/02/24/caring-for-educators/) - Tips for Boosting Staff Morale and Wellness It's no secret that it's been a tough year. Burn out is at an all time high for educators. Instead of assuming what teachers need, I reached out to large groups of educators and social media and asked. My question... Educators - What are some practical ways that
- [The Real Meaning of "Love"](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/02/12/the-real-meaning-of-love/) - The Real Meaning of "Love" by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/LOVE-WEB.mp3 Valentine's Day is once again upon us and the word "love" will echo across the globe, but what is "love"? It's amazing that in the United States we can hear someone say "I love my husband/wife" in the next breath say
- [Suicide, The Law and Common Sense](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/08/19/bullying-experts-broadcast/) - Suicide, The Law and Common Sense by Chris "Shoof" Scheufele and Jeff Veley | Chris in the Classroom Podcast https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/legal-suicide-podcast.mp3 Jeff Veley joins Chris Scheufele in the classroom to discuss David's Law, the impact of bullying on teen suicide, and how to provide psychological solutions to empower students to solve their own social problems.
- [Virtual School Assemblies Help Students Overcome Challenges](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/09/07/virtual-school-assemblies-help-students-overcome-challenges/) - Youth Motivational Speaker Teaches Students Resiliency and Coping Skills New Challenges for Students It's no surprise that 2020 has been a tough year for all of us. But when it comes to students who are having their school years disrupted due to COVID-19, it can sometimes feel overwhelming and unfair. Take everything that the reformative
- [The Words of Rachel Joy Scott](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/03/30/the-words-of-rachel-joy-scott/) - The Words of Rachel Joy Scott by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Web-The-Words-of-Rachel-Scott.mp3 As we reflect on the devistation caused by the recent school shootings across America, there is no doubt that change needs to happen. While it's easy to point out what others might do to help solve the problem, we must
- [How to Stop Mean Joking Behavior](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/03/13/how-to-stop-mean-jokes/) - Simple Solutions to Stop Aggression An often misunderstood form of aggression is "joking" behavior. Over time, a simple insult can grow into days or even years of comedic insults that drive kids crazy! The following article is based on the SQUABBLES® Theory of Aggression & the Peace Sign Approach to stop bullying. Understand that the
- [How to Stop People Who Want to Hurt You](https://www.jeffveley.com/2020/03/20/squabbles-how-to-stop-hurting/) - Simple Solutions to Stop Aggression An often misunderstood form of aggression is “joking” behavior. Over time, a simple insult can grow into days or even years of comedic insults that drive kids crazy! The following article is based on the SQUABBLES® Theory of Aggression & the Peace Sign Approach to stop bullying. Understand that the advice below is for
- [How to Stop Aggressive Behavior](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/09/04/how-to-stop-bullying-aggressive-behavior/) - Simple Solutions to Mean Behavior Bullying is a major buzzword in schools and among families. It seems that everyone has an opinion on how to handle bullies and solve this complex problem. Typically the solutions offered cause more issues or require programming that's inconsistent and difficult to implement. What if there was a simple solution to
- [Bigfoot Gets Bullied becomes a #1 Amazon Best Seller](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/10/24/bigfoot-gets-bullied-amazon-best-seller/) - Children's Book Climbs the Charts Despite Hardships Writing and launching my first children's book has been an adventure that I'll never forget. Though the road to being self-published has been a challenging one, I was blown-away to hear that "Bigfoot Gets Bullied" became a #1 Amazon best seller in four different categories. Wow! A huge
- [SQUABBLES® Launches Card Game on Kickstarter](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/09/13/squabbles-launches-card-game-on-kickstarter/) - A Conflict Resolution Card Game I am so excited to announce the release of SQUABBLES: The Game of Conflict Resolution. Man oh man, it's been more than a year in the making and I want to thank everyone who has been patiently waiting for this resilience-building resource. Here's my mentor/Squabbles™ Creator, Brooks Gibbs, holding our first prototype.
- [New Podcast Helps Educators Build Golden Rule Schools](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/09/18/podcast-helps-educators-build-golden-rule-schools/) - Youth Motivational Speaker Gives Listeners an Inside Look into Education On September 15th, youth motivational speaker and bullying prevention specialist Jeff Veley grabbed the mic and welcomed listeners to his new show. The Campus Peace Podcast documents Jeff's work inside schools across America. Through it, he hopes to help educators and mental health professionals better handle
- [Dangerous Apps for Teens](https://www.jeffveley.com/2015/01/29/dangerous-apps-for-teens/) - 1. KiK Messanger Kik is growing in it's popularity with teens. It allows users to send video and picture messages that cannot be seen by parents. In addition it is extremely difficult to find the personal identity of a user on Kik, which creates a high sense of security for child predators. Kik is a
- [National Tour Brings Bullying Prevention Message to Schools](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/07/24/national-tour-bullying-prevention-schools/) - Stop Bullying. Build Resilience. The "Love Changes It All Tour" will visit schools across the country this fall in an effort to help schools stop bullying through building resilience. The effort is led by national social skills educator Jeff Veley who produces the tour and serves as it's speaker. Each year, Veley travels from coast
- [How to Prevent School Shootings](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/02/22/prevent-school-shootings/) - Last Wednesday, upon returning from a day of speaking in Missouri, I got off the plane and was met with the news of yet another school shooting. I quickly learned that an expelled student had claimed the lives of 17 people at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School in Parkland, Florida. "It seems like there's another
- [Bigfoot Gets Bullied - FREE Children's Book](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/10/20/bigfoot-gets-bullied-free-childrens-book-on-bullying/) - FREE E-book Edition Available Today I'm so excited to release my children's book "Bigfoot Gets Bullied". To celebrate the launch (and National Bullying Prevention Month), I'm giving away FREE copies of the Kindle Edition for a limited time. About the Book Like many kids, Bigfoot has trouble fitting in at school. The other kids are
- [Bullying Victim Befriends Bully](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/09/28/bullying-victim-befriends-bully/) - How Worst Enemies Became Best Friends Abby's story is one of my favorites to tell. It shares the two simple steps that one middle schooler used to respond to mean behavior and effectively stop it, in less than one week. This is why the "Peace Sign Approach" is so powerful. In this video, I share
- [Golden Rule Ambassadors Expands Curriculum to Reach Elementary Students](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/08/06/golden-rule-ambassadors-elementary-curriculum/) - Social and Emotional Learning Program Program Helps Students Grow in Civility and Citizenship After launching the Golden Rule Ambassadors Curriculum last fall, we took time to survey those using the program. While it was designed as a resource for middle and high school students, we quickly saw that it was also being used by elementary
- [Curriculum Helps Schools Change Campus Culture in 15 Minutes a Week](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/08/27/social-and-emotional-learning-curriculum/) - Schools across the country are looking for creative ways to tackle issues like bullying, fighting, and general "unkind" behaviors. With concerns over teen anxiety and school safety at an all time high, educators want to make drastic changes to ensure that the learning experience is as positive as possible. The main issue facing schools is
- [Back to School Bullying](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/09/01/back-to-school-bullying/) - There are many things to do before the first school bell rings. Across the nation, students, parents, and teachers are preparing to head back to school once again. One of the most concerning issues at this time of year is shared among students and their parents - the issue of bullying. What is bullying? Bullying
- [Bullying Prevention Expert Speaks to Middle School Students](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/09/22/bullying-prevention-expert-speaks-to-middle-school-students/) - Recently the "Love Changes It All Tour" visited middle schools in Henry County, Virginia. As part of the school's Positive Behavior Interventions and Support (PBIS) program, they invited me to train their middle school students and staff with skills to stop social aggression and help students protect their feelings from being hurt by unkind behavior.
- [Schools Flip the Script on Anti-Bullying Messages](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/01/16/schools-flip-the-script-on-anti-bullying-messages/) - Educators in Arkansas are using new language to address the issue of bullying. Often anti-bullying messages deter negative behavior, aiming at stopping bullies and encouraging victims to report all incidents. Many educators are looking to add some positivity to the mix, encouraging students to be emotionally resilient and resolve simple conflicts with kind words. One
- [Bullying Expert Speaks to Students/Parents at General McLane School District](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/02/26/bullying-expert-speaks-to-students-parents-at-general-mclane-school-district/) - Youth motivational speaker, Jeff Veley, spoke with hundreds of students in General McLane, from elementary to high school. An award-winning bullying expert makes his way to the General McLane School District. Tuesday, Jeff Veley, a youth motivational speaker, used a fun and engaging way to reach students on ways to empower them, and prevent bullying
- [House Committee Announces Federal Funding for Social and Emotional Learning](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/05/29/house-committee-announces-federal-funding-for-social-and-emotional-learning/) - $260 Million Slated for 2020 Education Budget School administrators and counselors are cheering after a vote to increase funding for social and emotional learning. As mental health needs grow among students, schools have been desperate for resources to train staff and provide support for students. Karen Niemi, President and CEO of CASEL (The Collaborative for
- [Anti-Bully Law: Parents Fined for Kids' Bullying Behavior](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/04/11/anti-bully-law-parents-fined-for-kids-bullying-behavior/) - Wisconsin Attempts to Stop Bullies in New Legislation One Wisconsin city is saying "no" to bullying through a new proposal that would hold parents responsible. The proposed law is one of many across America which attempts to reduce incidents of bullying through legal means. The proposed law in Sun Prarie, Wisconsin would include verbal, physical,
- [The Campus Peace-Building Initiative: Helping Shape School Culture](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/06/27/the-campus-peace-building-initiative-helping-shape-school-culture/) - Across America, schools are seeking solutions for how to deal with the growing problem of aggression on campus. From bullying to more violent acts like school shootings, the need for training programs, policies, and procedures couldn't be more prevelant. While some school districts take a piece-meal approach, many are seeking a comprehensive solution that gets
- [How to Help a Child with Autism Stop Bullying](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/08/08/how-to-help-your-child-with-autism-stop-bullying/) - Helping Students with Autism Overcome Bullying by Jeff Veley | Campus Peace Chat https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Helping-Students-with-Autism-Overcome-Bullying.mp3 Students with autism spectrum disorders (ASD) are said to targets of bullying much more often than their fellow classmates. A research study shows that autistic students may be bullied nearly five times as often as their peers. During the study, around 46%
- [The Momo Challenge: Suicide Game or Viral Hoax](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/02/28/the-momo-challenge-suicide-game-or-viral-hoax/) - What is Momo? A scary face (known as Momo) is making another viral round on the internet, frightening parents and children. According to reports, the image suddenly appears on apps and websites such as YouTube, WhatsApp, Fortnight and Peppa Pig. It allegedly manipulates the viewer into completing so-called challenges. The most disturbing challenges involve self-harm
- [The Toxic Word "Bullying"](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/02/27/the-toxic-word-bullying/) - Stop Using the "B-Word' by Chris Scheufele, Brooks Gibbs, Jeff Veley | Chris in the Classroom Podcast https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/02/Stop-Using-the-B-Word.mp3 Bullying prevention specialists sit down to discuss the negative impacts of the word "bullying". Learn why this one word can derail progress when it comes to helping targets of social aggression. Today, the words "bully" and "bullying"
- [Love Suffers Long](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/02/27/love-suffers-long/) - Love Suffers Long by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/Web-Love-Suffers-Long.mp3 Recently on "Love Changes It All" Radio we've talked about how love is a choice. The Hebrew word for love translates to "long suffering". I don't know about you but I can certainly think of some relationships where I had to endure long,
- [Montana School District Hosts Community Forum on Mental Health](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/01/08/montana-school-district-hosts-community-forum-on-mental-health/) - Community members filled the Dawson County High School Auditorium in Glendive, Montana on January 2nd. The "Stronger Together Community Forum" was created to address growing mental health concerns. It is expected to be the first in a series of discussions to help address topics like chemical dependence, suicide, bullying, and depression. The forum was facilitated
- [Parenting Tips from Grandma Jo](https://www.jeffveley.com/2019/01/17/parenting-tips-from-grandma-jo/) - My Grandma Jo has quickly become a memorable figure from my live school assembly. She loves, she dishes wisdom, and (most of all) Grandma don't play! In this special interview Grandma talks about what it was like to watch her grandson face bullying at school. Her insight can help parents and students today.
- [Jeff Veley uses Comedy, Magic to Reach Kids](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/11/16/peace-amabassdor-visits-hinsdale-schools/) - I greatly appreciate the Hinsdalean for highlighting the great work that schools in their community are doing to promote peace and civility in response to social aggression. - Jeff Veley
- [Student Football Fans Stop Rival's Insults with Simple Gesture](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/11/21/student-football-fans-stop-rivals-insults-simple-gesture/) - The roar of a high school football game is enough to get any sports fan excited. Often, though, a peaceful night of fun can turn sour when fans disagree with a call or see the opposing team racking up points on the board. It’s no surprise that violence at school football games in America is
- [Schools Pay Students for Bullying Reports](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/11/24/snitches-for-hire-schools-pay-students-for-bullying-reports/) - Schools Offer Cash Rewards for Reports of Bullying Some are calling it "Snitches for Hire". Schools are now offering cash rewards to students who report acts of bullying. This movement is coming after legislation makes bullying a criminal offense. Repeated acts of mean behavior are now being treated similarly to violent acts, like assault and
- [Making Time in the New Year](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/12/29/making-time-in-the-new-year/) - Making Time in the New Year by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/Web-New-Year-Making-Time.mp3 As you set goals in 2018, I want to challenge you to think not only about personal goals but also goals for your family. How do you want to love each other in 2018? What things will you put in
- [How to Manage Your Emotions](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/12/21/how-to-manage-your-emotions/) - How to Manage Your Emotions by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/Web-Managing-Emotions.mp3 It's the holiday season and, among the hustle and bustle are a few extra opportunities to get your feathers ruffled. Stress levels during "the most wonderful time of the year" tend to be at all-time high. As you prepare for many
- [Building Self-Confidence](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/12/11/building-self-confidence/) - Building Self-Confidence by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/Web-Self-confidence.mp3 I recently read an article in the Dallas News. The title immediately peaked my interest. The headline read "Lawnmower Parents are Raising a Generation of Kids Who Struggle with Adversity". Penned by Ramy Mahmoud, a teacher in Plano, TX, the article talks about how
- [What To Do When You Feel Unappreciated](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/12/15/what-do-you-when-you-feel-unappreciated/) - Learning Each Other's Love Languages by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/Web-Love-Languages.mp3 This year marks the 25th anniversary of “The 5 Love Languages” by Dr. Gary Chapman. The book is not only a classic for how to love well in relationships, but it’s also helped me solve a number of conflicts with people that I
- [Merry Christmas to You!](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/12/24/merry-christmas-to-you/) - Merry Christmas to You by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/Web-Merry-Christmas.mp3 Enjoy this joyous time of year with those that you love most and spread a little love and kindness to someone that you don't know. Together, we can make the world a little brighter.
- [Meet Madelyn, A Student Peace Ambassador](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/01/26/meet-madelyn-a-student-peace-ambassador/) - Each week I drop some nuggets of wisdom challenging you to love well. This week, I've invited my friend Madelyn Johnson, a student who is currently traveling the country, promoting peace and showing love in many places. I met Madelyn a few years back, while speaking at her school. How she showed love to her
- [Viewing Disagreements as Opportunities](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/02/09/viewing-disagreements-opportunities/) - Viewing Disagreements as Opportunities by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/Web-Disagreements-Are-Opportunities.mp3 Recently I had to work through a challenging disagreement with a friend. To be honest, I didn't know how it was going to go. It was one of those conversations that you dread, but know needs to happen. While I knew that
- [Parenting Lessons from Wal Mart](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/01/09/parenting-lessons-from-wal-mart/) - Love Set's Limits by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/Web-Love-Sets-Limits.mp3 I have to admit that when I first started in the social work field, I would occasionally visit Wal Mart to gather illustrations on parenting. The people were always there and the demonstrations never disappointed. Before you call me creepy, recognize that you
- [Investing When Others Run Away](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/02/16/investing-run-away/) - Investing When Others Run Away by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/Web-Investing-When-Others-Run.mp3 If you want to freak out an enemy in your life, follow today's tip. Whether it's someone that you are consistently at odds with or simply someone who posts a rude comment on social media, showing kindness and making an investment
- [National School Walkout Day](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/03/14/national-school-walkout-day/) - Why One Student Isn't Walking Out by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All - Special Feature https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/03/Web-17-Resons-to-Make-a-Difference.mp3 Today, many students across America will leave their classrooms at 10 am to demand change when it comes to guns and school safety. In talking with educators, parents, and community members about National School Walkout Day, some
- [A Simple Tip to Boost Student Achievement](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/04/13/a-simple-tip-to-boost-student-achievement/) - A Simple Tip to Boosting Student Achievement by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/04/Web-Simple-Step-to-Boost-Your-Students-Acheivments.mp3 Teens today are more anxious than ever before. The world's stressors are great, communication is constant, and it all can get overwhelming very quickly. All too often, I see parents with the best intentions add to this stress and
- [Balancing Indoor and Outdoor Time](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/05/18/balancing-indoor-and-outdoor-time/) - Balancing Indoor and Outdoor Time by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/05/Web-Balancing-Indoor-and-outdoor-time.mp3 As much as kids and parents may buck the schedule, there's no doubt that establishing some structure during your week, can ease everyone's anxiety and give you things to look forward to. One thing that's important to put on the calendar
- [How Do I Make My Kids Behave in Public](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/06/22/how-do-i-make-my-kids-behave-in-public/) - Help My Kids Behave in Public by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/06/Help-My-Kid-Behave-in-Public.mp3 I was recently traumatized while out to eat with some friends as I watched a small child torment her parents. In minutes, I watched a child who was not getting her way turn a small fit into a full-on a
- [The Power of Forgiveness](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/02/23/the-power-of-forgiveness/) - Forgiveness by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/Web-Forgiveness.mp3 Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and hoping it kills the other person. Harboring negative thoughts only harms the person holding onto them. When you think of forgiveness in this way, you can quickly understand why it's one of the most powerful gifts you can give,
- [Students Use Reporting Hotline to Bully Peers](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/05/04/students-use-reporting-hotline-to-bully-peers/) - A hotline designed to make schools safe is now being used by students to bully others. Now, lawmakers and school officials are scrambling in an effort to address false reports made through Safe2Tell. The hotline was created after the Columbine shooting so that students could anonymously report concerns and prevent potential acts of violence. Lucy
- [13 Reasons Why:  What Happens in Season 2?  What Parents and Educators Need to Know](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/05/19/13-reasons-why-season-2-what-parents-need-to-know/) - Netflix Makes Changes to Controversial Hit Show Season 2 of 13 Reasons Why hit Netflix today with 13 new episodes. Continuing where Season 1 left off, we find out that there's still much to learn about the life and death of Hannah Baker. As the show says "Just because you have the picture doesn’t mean you
- [What Do I Do If My Kid is a Bully?](https://www.jeffveley.com/2018/08/30/what-do-i-do-if-my-kid-is-a-bully/) - Dealing with bullying is never fun. While most parents fear that their kid will be the victim of bullying, some find out that their child's negative behavior has found them labeled as the school "bully". If you get this news, as a parent, you may find yourself feeling embarrassed, angry, or even guilty. Most parents
- [Bullying - Reporting VS. Empowerment](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/07/20/bullying-reporting-vs-empowerment-2/) - Why Many Anti-Bullying Programs Make Things Worse It's a question that administrators ask me every day... "Will hosting a bullying assembly cause student reporting to increase?" Let's be honest... You have enough to deal with. Reports of legitimate safety issues are important but tattling and social squabbles are a waste of your time. Watch this
- [Back To School Tips](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/08/04/back-to-school-tips/) - Back To School Tips by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Back-to-School.mp3 Believe it or not, it's that time of year again. Summer is quickly coming to a close and families are preparing for students to head back to school this fall. For many students, the transition from a summer full of freedom back
- [Avoiding Power Struggles](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/12/03/avoiding-power-struggles/) - Never Wrestle with a Pig by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Wrestle-with-Pigs.mp3 It's incredible how we, as human-beings, thrive on conflict. After all, it's often entertaining to watch someone fight for something. This is largely the reason that reality television shows are successful. While conflicts may be fun to watch in the leisure
- [The Best Mindset to Stop Bullying](https://www.jeffveley.com/2015/07/20/the-best-mindset-to-stop-bullying/) - The infograph below is one of the most POWERFUL things that I can share with you when it comes to bullying prevention, intervention, and response. When it comes to bullying, there are two mindsets that you can take. Your effectiveness in helping young people all depends on WHICH mindset you choose. Unfortunately until recently educators
- [T.H.I.N.K. Before You Post](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/04/24/t-h-i-n-k-before-you-post/) - Using Social Media Responsibly by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/Using-Social-Media-Responsibly.mp3 The story of a teen using social media as her diary (heard in the audio clip above) You may ask "Did she really think that no one saw her posts?" Believe it or not both teens and adults often post without first
- [Dangerous Apps & Websites](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/02/06/dangerous-apps-websites/) - Dangerous Apps & Websites by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/Web-Dangerous-Apps-and-Websites.mp3 1. KiK Messanger Kik is growing in it's popularity with teens. It allows users to send video and picture messages that cannot be seen by parents. In addition it is extremely difficult to find the personal identity of a user on Kik,
- [A Humble Voice](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/08/14/a-humble-voice/) - A Humble Voice by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/08/Web-A-Humble-Voice.mp3 A little over a year ago I posted a video to social media about a question that had been haunting me. The question was "What would you do if you only had one year to live? In concluding my thoughts, I realized that
- [Getting Left Out](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/10/05/getting-left-out/) - Getting Left Out - Dealing with Social Exclusion by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/Web-Social-Exclusion.mp3 Responding to Social Exclusion I remember elementary school all too well. One re-occurring memory was being left out. I never was very athletic and if a student was going to pick teams during gym class or for a
- [Jeff Veley Talks Cyberbullying and Online Safety](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/04/04/jeff-veley-talks-cyberbullying-and-online-safety/) - Cyberbullying and Cyber Safety by Chris "Shoof" Scheufele and Jeff Veley | Chris in the Classroom Podcast https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Cyberbully-Podcast-.mp3 Above: Jeff Veley hops in the classroom for a lesson on how to keep kids safe online and respond to haters when they pop up. Research indicates that nearly 75% of teens are cyberbullied but only 1 in
- [Prepare Your Teen How to Respond to Cyberbullying](https://www.jeffveley.com/2015/01/30/teach-your-teen-how-to-respond-to-cyberbullying/) - Prepare Your Teen to Respond to Cyberbullying by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/Web-Cyberbullying.mp3 Research indicates that nearly 75% of teens are cyberbullied but only 1 in 10 tell their parents or other adults. For a list of cyberbullying tips and a special podcast interview with Jeff about keeping your children safe online,
- [Boosting a Kid's Self-Esteem](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/12/01/boosting-childs-self-esteem/) - Boosting a Kid's Self-Esteem by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/12/Web-Self-Esteem.mp3 Love is not self-seeking but it’s important to love yourself
- [The Desire to Be Popular](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/10/09/the-desire-to-be-popular/) - The Desire to Be Popular by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/10/Web-Popular.mp3 How to Handle and Achieve a Higher Social Status As I travel the country talking to students, they often share a desire with me to be part of the popular crowd. It's natural to want others to notice us, respect us,
- [Helping Kids Control Their Anger](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/10/17/helping-kids-control-their-anger/) - Anger Management Techniques by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-How-to-Control-My-Anger.mp3 Simple Strategies for Anger Management Anger is often the emotion that gets us in trouble. We've all seen anger outbursts. It might be a teenager screaming and slamming their bedroom door when mom and dad say "no" to them staying out past curfew
- [Remembering Your Value](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/11/13/remembering-your-value/) - Value by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/Web-Value.mp3 This video is taken from a series of Peace Band mentoring videos from social skills educator and peace ambassador Jeff Veley. To pick up a Peace Band and access these videos, visit www.peace-bands.com
- [The Wisdom of "Sticks & Stones"](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/11/25/3717/) - Sticks and Stones by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Stick-and-Stones.mp3 Here's a clip from my LIVE DVD which dives deeper into the meaning of "Sticks & Stones" and how it can empower us to be resilient in the midst of adversity today.
- [When You Feel Like a Broken Record](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/12/12/when-you-feel-like-a-broken-record/) - Broken Record by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/Web-Broken-Record.mp3 If you are a parent or you work with kids in some capacity then you know what it feels like to have that little vein pop out of your neck because you have repeated the same instruction, given the same advice, or answered the
- [Dealing with Holiday Stress](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/12/19/dealing-with-holiday-stress/) - Tips for Dealing with Holiday Stress by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/Web-Christmas-Tip-1.mp3 The Christmas season is certainly a busy one. It's important to remember that the stress that we often feel as adults, with the busy-ness can impact our kids as well. Review the Schedule Going over the plans for the holiday
- [One Year to Live](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/12/29/one-year-to-live/) - One Year to Live by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/Web-One-Year.mp3 One Year Ago... On December 29, 2015 I recorded the video that you see above. I had no idea how powerful this question was... It inspired me to lose 52 lbs in two months, meet my favorite band, accomplish my dreams of
- [Where Are You Going?](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/01/01/where-are-you-going/) - Where Are You Going? by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Where-Are-You-Going.mp3 How Will You Love in 2017? A new year offers many opportunities. One of those opportunities has to do with love... consistent compassion in action. What are your goals in regards to love for 2017? Is there a relationship that you need
- [Is Public Humiliation an Effective Way to Punish Kids?](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/01/15/is-public-humiliation-an-effective-way-to-punish-kids/) - Public Humiliation as a Form of Punishment by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/Web-Public-Humiliation.mp3 This a common question that I hear as a bullying prevention specialist. My professional opinion is "No!". Here's why... 1. The consequence is the same as the negative behavior that you are trying to change. Public humiliation is a
- [Are You a Thermometer or a Thermostat?](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/01/22/are-you-a-thermometer-or-a-thermostat/) - Are You a Thermostat or Thermometer? by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Thermostat.mp3 Are you the kind of person that reacts to the environment around you or do you set the tone and change the environment? The Thermometer We all know people who are reactive. Their mood can change as quickly as the
- [The Importance of Finding a Mentor](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/02/20/the-importance-of-finding-a-mentor/) - The Importance of Finding a Mentor by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/02/Importance-of-Finding-a-Mentor.mp3 If you want to increase your teen's chance of succeeding in life, there's one critical ingredient... a mentor. According to a Research Brief published by Child Trends, A teen with a mentor doubles their chances of making wise choices, experiencing success, and reaching
- [How to Deal with Rumors](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/03/06/how-to-deal-with-rumors/) - How to Deal with Rumors by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/Web-Rumors.mp3 As someone who travels across the country each year speaking to students, parents, and educators about bullying, I often hear the question... Jeff, how do you deal with someone spreading a rumor about you? If your child is struggling with this
- [Who's Dippin' in Your Salsa?](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/03/27/whos-dippin-in-your-salsa/) - Who's Dippin' in Your Salsa? by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/03/Web-Whos-Dipping-in-Your-Salsa.mp3 Video for Teens Love Always Protects
- [Admitting Mistakes to Your Teen](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/04/03/admitting-mistakes-to-your-teen/) - Admitting Mistakes to Your Teen by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/04/Web-Admitting-Mistakes-to-Your-Teen.mp3 One of the most difficult things to go through as a parent is watching one of your kids struggle with some of the same things that you did at their age. The question I often hear from parents is... "Should I
- [What Are You Wearing?](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/04/20/what-are-you-wearing/) - WHAT Are You Wearing? by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/What-Are-You-Wearing.mp3 Dear Parent/Caring Adult, For several years I worked as the Production Manager for a fashion show for teens. My family and friends thought it was hilarious. It was. I don't necessarily consider myself a fashion guru. I'm more a jeans and t-shirt
- [The Law of Reciprocity](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/05/01/the-law-of-reciprocity/) - The Dangers of Living by the Law of Reciprocity by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/Law-of-Reciprocity.mp3 The Law of Reciprocity can be easily summed up as "Treat others the way that they treat you". Our naturally tendency as human beings is to allow the behavior of others to dictate how we treat them.
- [The Golden Rule](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/05/08/the-golden-rule/) - The Genius Golden Rule by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/The-Golden-Rule.mp3 The Golden Rule is one of the most well-known of all ancient teachings. We often learn it as children but I would argue that we don't fully understand it or the power that it holds to transform relationships. After all, when you
- [Dealing with an Authority Figure Who Bullies](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/05/15/3526/) - Dealing with a Boss Who Bullies by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/05/Web-How-to-Deal-with-a-Boss-Who-Bullies.mp3 It's always a pleasure to hear from our listeners who email me. Feel free to drop me a question anytime at team@jeffveley.com You can get some further tips from my email response to Julie... Hi Julie, It surely sounds like
- [Resilience Revolution:  Meet Nick Vujicic](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/05/22/meet-nick-vujicic/) - Meet Nick - A Life Without Limbs by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Meet-Nick-A-Life-Without-Limbs.mp3 I first heard Nick's story years ago. At the time, I had no idea who he was or the impact that his story would have on my life. Maybe, like me, in the past few years you have had
- [Resilience Revolution:  Meet Lizzie Velasquez](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/05/29/meet-lizzie-velasquez/) - Meet Lizzie Velasquez - The "Ugliest" Girl in the World by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Meet-Lizzie-The-Ugliest-Girl-in-the-World.mp3 You're going to love hearing from Lizzie Velasquez in the video below. As young people face cyber-bullying and rumors, Lizzie's story offers hope. While I've never seen her birth certificate, I'm pretty sure that her middle
- [Resilience Revolution: Jeff Veley's Story](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/06/05/resilience-revolution-jeff-veleys-story/) - Resilience Revolution: Jeff Veley's Story by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Jeff-Sharing-My-Story.mp3 For the past three weeks "Love Changes It All" has been pumping out stories of resilience through radio speakers across the country as well as this online blog. I truly believe that one of the best ways to inspire those who
- [Summer Structure](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/06/12/summer-structure/) - Summer Structure by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Summer-Structure.mp3 Most parents know that structure is a key piece in helping our kids manage daily tasks. Summer is a great time to review family rules. What rules will change over the summer? Will there be new bedtimes, a change in chores, or curfew extensions?
- [The Anger Illusion](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/06/12/the-anger-illusion/) - The Anger Illusion by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/The-Anger-Illusion.mp3 So often we view anger negatively but it is a natural emotion. It is important to understand that anger is a secondary emotion, usually following fear, disappointment, or extreme sadness. Anger itself is not bad unless it hurts us or others. It's easy
- [The Importance of Modeling Behavior](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/06/29/the-importance-of-modeling-behavior/) - The Importance of Modeling Behavior by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Modeling-Behavior.mp3 The age-old phrase "Actions speak louder than words," is true. What you show your children by way of your behavior is often more important than what yousay. In the social work field, we call it "modeling behavior". If you don't want your child
- [How to Get Your Teen to Open Up to You](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/07/28/how-to-get-your-teen-to-open-up-to-you/) - The Risk of Being Real by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/07/Web-Risk-of-Being-Real.mp3 Recently I had a camera crew follow me for several day on my live speaking tour as I visited middle and high schools. They captured so many cool moments as I connected with kids, not only sharing my story, but also
- [Growing Your Child's Self-Worth](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/11/16/growing-your-childs-self-worth/) - Growing Your Child's Self-Worth by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/11/Web-Self-worth.mp3 For the next few weeks, my radio features and online blog will focus on helping children grow in three areas... Self-Worth Self-Esteem Self-Confidence As a parent, I believe the greatest thing you can say to help your child grow in the area
- [Keeping a "Wrong" Record](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/08/28/keeping-a-wrong-record/) - The Wrong Record by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Wrong-Record.mp3 You can likely relate to being in the middle of a disagreement and having the other person bring up something from the past that's completely unrelated to the issue at hand. It's likely that this person has kept a record of wrongs. The
- [Loving Your Kids Through Consequences](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/09/08/3347/) - Loving Your Kids Through Consequences by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Web-Consequences.mp3 Giving consequences can be tricky for a parent. After all, who wants to punish a kid that they love. If you do want to punish a child, it can often be in a moment of frustration. You likely faced a consequence
- [Every Man Needs a Man Cave](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/09/14/every-man-needs-a-man-cave/) - Every Man Needs a Man Cave by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Web-Every-Man-Needs-A-Mancave.mp3 Yep, you heard me right. I'm a proud mancave advocate. For years I have said that whenever I buy a house, I need a space like this. I believe that everyone should have a special place set aside to
- [Be Someone's "Amy"](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/09/29/be-someones-amy/) - Be Someone's "Amy" by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/09/Web-Be-Someones-Amy.mp3 Listen to the clip above about the girl who changed my life with one simple act of kindness. I've been looking for Amy since I was 14 years old. I tried tracking her down via social media, phone books - everything I could
- [Tough and Tender Parenting](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/10/20/tough-and-tender-parenting/) - Tough and Tender by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Tough-and-Tender.mp3 One of the most difficult thing about parenting is giving consequences. After all, your children may respond completely differently when given the same consequence. What is effective with one child may not be effective with another. How do you know which response is
- [Haters at the Football Game](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/10/27/haters-at-the-football-game/) - Students Respond in Peace to Haters by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Peace-Sign-Football-Game.mp3 Check out the incredible actions by these amazing students as I take you to their football stadium to hear the story.
- [Keeping Social Problems Off Social Media](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/10/24/keeping-social-problems-off-social-media/) - As a parent it can be so frustrating to see your child mistreated. Hearing that your kid is being relentlessly teased, left out, or has a rumor being spread about them is so hard to deal with. It may make you want to scream, lash out, or even publicly post to bring an awareness to
- [How to Stop Sibling Rivalry](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/10/29/how-to-stop-sibling-rivalry/) - How to End Sibling Rivalry by Jeff Veley | Love Changes It All https://www.jeffveley.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/Web-Ending-Sibling-Rivalry.mp3 Often we think that issues, such as bullying, take place most often at school. The truth is that the majority of these conflicts occur at home, between siblings. If you are a parent with more than one child, I'm sure it's
- [The True Meaning of Appreciation](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/11/21/the-true-meaning-of-appreciation/) - A few years ago I had the pleasure of meeting an incredible man by the name of Professor Dr. Kevin Storr. Dr. Storr, known as the stood on stage in a crowded ballroom full of some of the top leaders from around the world. His question was simple, "Do you know what it means to
- [National Resilience Month](https://www.jeffveley.com/2016/09/27/national-resilience-month/) - Unfortunately this month doesn't exist but I wish it did. September is National Suicide Prevention Month but I can't say that I'm a fan. Why? The social media posts such as #22Kill, school posters, commercials, and TV ad campaigns often leave us feeling more depressed instead of inspired/encouraged. Have you ever felt that way? Where
- [Jeff Veley Appointed as World Civility Ambassador in Gary, Indiana](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/04/17/jeff-veley-appointed-as-world-civility-ambassador-in-gary-indiana/) - Gary, Indiana --- Jeff Veley was one of several experts invited to attend World Civility Day, organized by Community Civility Counts,. Veley shared how to better promote civility and peace within educational institutions by empowering students and improving bullying prevention efforts. Throughout the day, attendees had a chance to hear from Gary Chamber Commerce President,
- [Is Sexual Assault Considered Bullying?](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/02/05/is-sexual-assault-considered-bullying/) - If you have attended any of my presentations or consumed my writings, you likely know that I'm not a fan of the word "bullying". Today I read a news story that talked about sexual assault (specifically rape), sexual harassment, and bullying as it described the experience of a young boy. It is insane how this
- [How Much Do Schools Spend on Bullying?](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/05/17/how-much-do-schools-spend-on-bullying/) - It's no surprise that the issue of bullying comes at a cost to school districts. The evening news is regularly filled with stories which include the testimonies of tearful students, frustrated parents, lawsuits, and student self-harm. Districts attempt to combat this by establishing school policies, implementing anti-bullying programs, and addressing negative behavior. It's all an
- [Now Accepting Grant Applications](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/05/26/now-accepting-grant-applications/) - Apply for a Bullying Prevention Grant We are excited to begin offering grant writing services to schools in need of bullying prevention programming. Your school can apply for a grant in as little as five minutes by clicking the button below. Jeff's social and emotional learning program utilizes the "Peace Sign Approach" which uses resilience
- [Community Presentations on Bullying Prevention Now Available in West Michigan](https://www.jeffveley.com/2017/05/30/community-presentations-on-bullying-prevention-now-available-in-west-michigan/) - Grand Rapids, MI --- This summer Jeff Veley will be providing special community presentations of his bullying prevention program throughout West Michigan. Designed for local coalitions, community foundations, business organizations, and ministry luncheons, this program is the perfect way to increase awareness on bullying prevention for those that want to make a difference in their

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- [About Jeff & The Approach](https://www.jeffveley.com/youth-motivational-speaker/) - About Jeff Veley Jeff Veley is a mental health professional that's insanely entertaining. Despite extraordinary challenges, he learned how to make friends and manage enemies. Today, he's a speaker who travels the globe empowering kids and grownups. His fun presentations inspire students to be resilient – teaching them how to leverage their adversities for psychological growth. Jeff's
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