Target, ask the aggressor these questions...1. Was it easier or harder to make fun of me this time?2. Could you respect me when I talked to you?3. Was I acting like an enemy or a friend?4. Who was winning this time?5. If other people were watching, would they think there was something wrong with me or with you?6. When someone is being mean to you is it better to stop them by getting upset or being calm and treating them like a friend?